It can happen once, twice and in multiples; Yes, it is possible and I am here again to lead you into nature’s innermost secrets of sexual satisfaction. Whether the mountain is so high or the valley so deep, just dig in and have a gushing blast of orgasm that will make you scream to high heavens no matter the circumstance.
This is what a wife told me after my last post:
“Each time my husband wants to make love to me, the first thing that comes to my mind is the thought of my big tummy. I always feel uncomfortable, especially with the lights on. There is nothing I’ve not tried, to lose weight… I’m always thinking he wants to do it just to fulfil all righteousness, because I know him, he prefers me slimmer…. It’s so sad because I don’t even eat that much” and so on and so forth.
A wife who is uptight cannot relax enough and let her sensuality come into play. When you worry or too conscious about your body weight your tummy or one imperfection or the other about yourself, you are not only going to be disconnected from your body, you will also miss connecting with your husband emotionally. Reason? You’re trapped in the negative thoughts swimming in your mind. One of the reasons women don’t have orgasms is because they drift, thinking of so many far away complicated things during lovemaking.
Ladies, it’s high time you let go of any distraction or self-judgment and make deep, meaningful love to your husband. Besides, in all the years he has seen your nakedness, has he ever asked you to get out of his sight or has he ever walked out on you? Of course not.
However, husbands, compliments are one of the most powerful aphrodisiacs, and your wife feeling comfortable in her skin will help elevate her mood, libido, and sexual response. Since orgasms are ultimately controlled by the brain, if you close your mind, you’ve closed the channel that makes orgasms and, by extension, nipple orgasms possible and I’m sure you don’t want to do that. So let go off inhibitions, it’s counterproductive.
So let go off inhibitions, it’s counterproductive. Increase that sexual energy and have fun with your husband.
How to Achieve Multiple Orgasms with your Spouse by Nipple/Breast Stimulation
Encourage your wife to go completely naked
Kiss her entire breast, but ignore her nipples for a while, breathe over them provocatively with your mouth, but don’t make any physical contact until her body begins to wriggle or twitch. Try to discipline or restrain yourself at this point as the anticipation builds up. It will be worth it in the long run as she orgasms. Ladies, as said earlier, connect with the moment so you can enjoy every moment of what’s happening in your body. Listen to the sexy sounds coming out of you and your husband, this will help to boost your vaginal fluidity as you achieve multiple orgasms.
The wife can also make the first move
You start by making several circles around the areola and breast without touching your nipples as you continue to build anticipation and getting fully ready for the next phase. Continue to do this until your nipples become erect. At this point, arrest your husband’s hands and compel him to stimulate your nipples either with his fingers or mouth. When your nipples are erect, they can tolerate more stimulation, which in turn produces more oxytocin (the joy chemical).
Husbands are encouraged at this moment, to move between the nipples, the breasts, the neck, the earlobe and the belly and listen as both of you moan and gasp As this point, you both can enjoy orgasms irrespective of weight or penis size or premature ejaculation challenge. You are both better and happier for it.
Cook Dinner Topless
For the newlyweds, I always counsel that both of you should live exclusively without another adult staying with you, at least for the first three years of marriage. Apart from getting to know each other better than the courtship days, it is also a period to build and solidify your sexual compatibility and exploration.
The wife should be free to move around the house topless or by putting on a very provocative dress that allows both of them for breast/penis stimulation and so on.
Strip to your undies
Put on a very transparent top, check it out in front of the mirror to be sure his eyes cannot miss your nipples. Then use it to greet him at the front door.
Hop into your shower or bathtub together and create soapy nipple/breast massage session in sensuous suggestive ways. The goose bumps you get are enough to lead both of you to a near-orgasm experience.
lounge Together On The Couch When Reading Or Watching Television
This way either of you can achieve the nipple/breast play with your hands.
What You Need To Achieve Ultimate Nipple/Breast Orgasms
• Breast creams made with mint or menthol create a gentle tingling sensation that will keep your nipples standing erect.
• Apply pre-sex mint on your nipples and have your husband lick your nipples when you start to orgasm.
• Apply massage oil on your nipples to give your husband a sensual back rub.
• Decorate your breasts with flavored, edible body cream or paint and ask your husband to slowly lick them off
• Breast-penis play is very creative, you can try it out. Vaginal intercourse is not the only way one can achieve orgasm.
• Apply chocolate on your wife’s nipples and lick it from breast to nipple.
Finally, husbands don’t be shy; a lot of men have very sensitive nipples as well. Some men can ejaculate just from nipple stimulation alone, while other men experience profound arousal. Be confident enough to guide your wife on how you want her to stimulate your nipples.
This weekend, have a blast of orgasm, in fact, multiple orgasms with your spouse alone.
See you next Sexy-friday on beforeandafter50.com
Kindly leave your comments and questions down below and don’t forget to share and subscribe 🙂